Maybe it was her choice to end the marriage. He said the words, he said I want to end the marriage, after she rejected the only other option presented, of trying an open marriage. She did not want an open marriage. She is happy for any people who choose an open marriage. Her choices became no marriage or open marriage. She chose no marriage. Sometimes choices don’t include Keanu Reeves and a private island in the Caribbean as a third option. She had two imperfect options here, and chose the one that worked best for her. In some previous version of herself she very well might have settled for an option that didn’t work for her. In this one, she didn’t.